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While I didn’t mind her attempt to make light of our collective plight, I knew that as much as I didn’t crave a fairytale romance, I did want to find love- lasting love!
The odds of which, going by my crappy dating track record, lay on the negative side of the scale. There were no fireworks, no love at first sight kinda crap, romantic music or even friendly vibes.
If we’ve decided that we’re going to commit to you, it means that we enjoy hanging out with you as much as we enjoy our work.
We ‘choose’ to be with you, not because we don’t want to be alone, but because we really love your company.
When students believed their responses were private, there was no difference between the two groups of women.
When they believed their responses would be shared with their classmates, partnered women and men didn’t change at all.
And when you come along, you may have turned our world upside down that we cannot let you go.
I mean how long can you take the stench of insulting jibes passed off as ‘sense of humor’ and a downright abuse of my position and financial standing! I didn’t understand why being an ambitious woman, and having achieved quite some laurels in both academic and professional realms, had to hurt my personal life!
I could easily slip into the comfort of the consolatory ‘men are intimidated by intelligent, successful women’ refrain and leave things at that. Why couldn’t I, as an ambitious woman (howsoever you view that label) be ambitious in love too?
The existence of a double-standard isn’t news to anyone — men have always been praised for being assertive, in both their home and work life, while women receive backlash for it.
It is nonsensical and sad that single women believe no man will want them for displaying such qualities.