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I romanticized a story about an adult man kidnapping, molesting, and raping an adolescent girl.
None of that stuff happened to me, but I still wince when I remember how I idealized the thought of someone being single-mindedly obsessed with me the way the novel’s narrator is with Lolita.
By Amy Rose Spiegel One of the most frequent Just Wondering questions we get here at Rookie is some variation on the following: “I’m a teenager and I’m thinking about dating/am intensely attracted to a person who’s significantly older than me. ” Well, as someone who not only has always been interested in older dudes, but has also dated quite a few of them, I have some things to say about your situation, question-askers.
When I was 15, I was dating a 28-year-old (cue gasping).
I just try to be sure I am leaving our finances and whatever else I can do set up in such a way that she would be taken care of if I were gone.
Of course there is the likelihood that one partner will be left alone and broken hearted.
He is interested in your ideas, adventure and even career.Looking back at that relationship now, seven years later, there are so many things I wish someone had told me before I decided to become the Lolita to this guy’s Humbert².That, by the way, is actually a comparison I made at the time, which is so gross to me now.My wife is 15 years younger than me and I am very happy, LOL.. Really I think we are at about the limit for difference not creating a problem later.When you get to extreme differences you run into the danger that the younger partner will spend a good portion of their life just being a caretaker for an old invalid and wasting years when he/she could be happy out doing things, still having great sex and being active etc... As the older one in the relationship I do sometimes find myself worrying if I'm being selfish.